I am a girl of almost 15 years was adopted from Colombia when I was 2 years. I never thought that I adopted except now. I have never been bullied for it and think it's okay to answer questions about it. But lately I've been thinking very very much on my biological parents. I really would not worry so much about it, because I'm afraid the parents I have now to be disappointed or upset ... I have asked my friends "Would you have AdOpera a child?" But the answer "No, I ttror I could have loved an adopted child as much as my own." It hurts, because then I do not know if I'm just as much loved here I am now, as I would be with my biological mother. I never met my biological parents and I do not know why I was AdOpera away. Something I really want to know. Colombia is the a poor country, so maybe she did it for my own good. Or am I just go delete an unwanted child ... I have very low self-esteem and the thought that I was unwanted and not as much loved as I skullle been making it worse. I've been called an orphan, but I know myself that I'm not. Actually I think it's stupid of parents to have a child they can not fit in. It goes beyond the child. (Ed: you can enter to ung.no/oss and get answers)
Hi, I dumped happened across this forum. see that many of the posts are a few years old, but I decide to write a few words Forde. For me, adoption great! I can not understand how adoption can be seen as something sad. I myself am adopted from Korea. this I have always been conscious of. I certainly do not remember that I have not known that I have adopted, or that I have not known what it means to be adopted. This I think has played a decisive role in my view of myself, my self. I am proud of where I come from, although this does not define me as a person. I am a Norwegian girl with Korean origin. My biological parents I know nothing about. But I'm sure I was adoption of a reason. I can understand that some people have a greater need to understand or to learn more about its origins. but for me this is a simple matter. I could well come to know more about my biological parents, but I'm one of those who believe that man is shaped by environment. My environment has made me who I am. Adoption is something that can provide child care, love and reassurance - a future.
am adopted from Asia and I have it good here in Norway. I hardly ever think that I'm adopted, only once in a while if someone asks. Friends and others around me have asked me a few things about being adopted. I think it's okay to answer your questions as long as they do not ask for much. Also, I think that it's a bit odd that some people reviewing my biological mother and father that my "real" parents ... Several people have asked me if I wonder how my biological family is, and if I want to find them and take contact. Often they think it's weird when I reply that I have no desire to do. But the thing is that I do not feel that I need to look for my biological family because I've got a family already. "Yes, but you will not know why they gave you away, then?" There are some who ask then. No, I see no point in it. Probably it's because they were / are poor and / or too young to be able to take care of me. I'm not mad at them because they adopted me away, they would probably just the best for me. Whatever is not important for me. I'm not saying that all adopted feel the way I do, but I just wanted to tell you that I do it. I feel awesome, I have a great family, a mother, father, siblings, grandparents, etc. which I love more than anything. Greeting me;)