Hey, I wonder something that bothers me a bit, actually. Ever since I've been born I have had Asperger syndrome. I remember well that I was bullied in elementary school because of exactly this. It was so illa that I had to move and change schools. At the new school in 7th class a miracle happened. I got many good friends! They took me well received and after nearly three years I feel I have become more "normal" in a way. I manage to talk common with my mates and understand what they are saying! I feel that the syndrome is completely gone! I remember that I did embarrassing things in elementary school such as showing penis my schoolyard and shower with my clothes just to rough me for the others. I must admit that I do not quite 100% is entirely in the social, but I'm MUCH better on road than I was 3 years ago. That I should ask about is: 1: Is Asperger Syndrome which recedes? 2: Are there any positive aspects with Asperger Syndrome? 3: Some other facts?
Hey boy 14 years
Thank you for writing to us in Ung.no and tell us that you are better off now and that you will ask us questions about having Asperger Syndrome.
It's good to hear that you have it so much better now!
The fact that it helped you to change schools and you've got a lot of good friends have made a difference for you and it's good.
You have good questions related to having Asperger syndrome and I will try to answer you as best I can.
It is possible to get better with Asperger! This is because you are so lucky that you have good friends and that you learn how to deal with the social. You say you do not master it quite yet but you're much better. It is good!
Most people would probably still live with their diagnosis but there are also some that grow from diagnosis when they grow up! There are various degrees of this
It's also known that people with Asperger can be good in mathematics, many get a good academic career and many with Asperger marry. It is possible to get a pretty good life with Asperger.
I enclose some articles for you that you can benefit from.
Learn to know yourself first
Before going to get to know others, it is wise to be aware of themselves.
Learn how you are by asking others who know you well.
Be aware of your strengths and your weaknesses.
Be conscious of what you are good at.
Be aware of what you are interested in.
Being aware of what your resources.
Be conscious of what kind of first impression you give.
Once you know more about yourself, you are safer on yourself and it does well when you are with others. When you are confident about yourself, other possible safer for you. Once you know more about yourself, you can also view your pages more clearly to others, and then it is easier to match with others who like just you and your strengths and weaknesses, and who have the same interests. Be the best version of yourself and be honest about who you are. Everyone is different and you do not have to be identical to like each other, but it is an advantage to like something similar. If you want to be liked by some, so try to accept them as they are and show interest in them.
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To be known
Be conscious of first impression. It has a lot to say how to contact and how is the first time you talk to someone. First impressions can be corrected, but there is a bigger job than to make a good first impression.
Be conscious of appearance, dressing and hygiene. Shower daily, wash your hair frequently and have clean clothes that do not smell of sweat. See what other uses of clothes, shoes, possibly. Makeup and hairstyle and try to have something similar, but not identical. -Be Happy someone to help you find clothes, shoes and hairstyle that suits you. A friend would surely help you if you ask.
Be nice. Smile friendly (practice often in the mirror and smile with both mouth and eyes, but not too much)
Look at the other when you talk, but move your gaze to the outside person occasionally.
Exchange opinions and interests. -Tell A little about what you are interested in and think and listen to what the others are interested in and believe. You do not have to agree with the others, but you can listen and that the others think anything other than you. Does the other completely different interests than you, try to learn a little about the interests. Try listening a little more to the other than you talk yourself. Others like you listen when they talk. When you get to know what the others are interested in, you can also find out if there is something similar that you are interested in. Common interests are a good start to a friendship or a dating relationship.
In love? Take the first step!
How do show your interest when the other speaks:
Look at the second occassionally
Nod a little occasionally, when you understand or agree
Answer "mm" occasionally, to show that you listen
Ask if you do not understand, or if you want to know more
Follow up there the other says, to ask more about what it has talked about or to tell us about what you think about the case, or what you are interested in similar slightly.
Ask some questions about ordinary things, such as:
- "How did that on the test?"
- "What are you going for the holidays?"
- "You were gone yesterday, you were sick?"
You can also take the initiative to do something together:
- "Shall we have lunch together?"
- "Shall we go to the cinema?"
- "Will you be involved in a run in the afternoon?"
- "Would you like to join to game today?"
Here are some tips you might find useful when you need to practice to chat with others and get to know
Everyone must practice to become better. Anyone can manage to get to familiarize yourself more with others. To not feel that they have succeeded, can be a little painful. But try again. And pray gladly for some advice from someone you think can help you. You will get better and better if you try and practice
Hey boy 14 years
Thank you for writing to us in Ung.no and tell us that you are better off now and that you will ask us questions about having Asperger Syndrome.
It's good to hear that you have it so much better now!
The fact that it helped you to change schools and you've got a lot of good friends have made a difference for you and it's good.
You have good questions related to having Asperger syndrome and I will try to answer you as best I can.
It is possible to get better with Asperger! This is because you are so lucky that you have good friends and that you learn how to deal with the social. You say you do not master it quite yet but you're much better. It is good!
Most people would probably still live with their diagnosis but there are also some that grow from diagnosis when they grow up! There are various degrees of this
It's also known that people with Asperger can be good in mathematics, many get a good academic career and many with Asperger marry. It is possible to get a pretty good life with Asperger.
I enclose some articles for you that you can benefit from.
Learn to know yourself first
Before going to get to know others, it is wise to be aware of themselves.
Learn how you are by asking others who know you well.
Be aware of your strengths and your weaknesses.
Be conscious of what you are good at.
Be aware of what you are interested in.
Being aware of what your resources.
Be conscious of what kind of first impression you give.
Once you know more about yourself, you are safer on yourself and it does well when you are with others. When you are confident about yourself, other possible safer for you. Once you know more about yourself, you can also view your pages more clearly to others, and then it is easier to match with others who like just you and your strengths and weaknesses, and who have the same interests. Be the best version of yourself and be honest about who you are. Everyone is different and you do not have to be identical to like each other, but it is an advantage to like something similar. If you want to be liked by some, so try to accept them as they are and show interest in them.
Ung.no flirtation school
To be known
Be conscious of first impression. It has a lot to say how to contact and how is the first time you talk to someone. First impressions can be corrected, but there is a bigger job than to make a good first impression.
Be conscious of appearance, dressing and hygiene. Shower daily, wash your hair frequently and have clean clothes that do not smell of sweat. See what other uses of clothes, shoes, possibly. Makeup and hairstyle and try to have something similar, but not identical. -Be Happy someone to help you find clothes, shoes and hairstyle that suits you. A friend would surely help you if you ask.
Be nice. Smile friendly (practice often in the mirror and smile with both mouth and eyes, but not too much)
Look at the other when you talk, but move your gaze to the outside person occasionally.
Exchange opinions and interests. -Tell A little about what you are interested in and think and listen to what the others are interested in and believe. You do not have to agree with the others, but you can listen and that the others think anything other than you. Does the other completely different interests than you, try to learn a little about the interests. Try listening a little more to the other than you talk yourself. Others like you listen when they talk. When you get to know what the others are interested in, you can also find out if there is something similar that you are interested in. Common interests are a good start to a friendship or a dating relationship.
In love? Take the first step!
How do show your interest when the other speaks:
Look at the second occassionally
Nod a little occasionally, when you understand or agree
Answer "mm" occasionally, to show that you listen
Ask if you do not understand, or if you want to know more
Follow up there the other says, to ask more about what it has talked about or to tell us about what you think about the case, or what you are interested in similar slightly.
Ask some questions about ordinary things, such as:
- "How did that on the test?"
- "What are you going for the holidays?"
- "You were gone yesterday, you were sick?"
You can also take the initiative to do something together:
- "Shall we have lunch together?"
- "Shall we go to the cinema?"
- "Will you be involved in a run in the afternoon?"
- "Would you like to join to game today?"
Here are some tips you might find useful when you need to practice to chat with others and get to know
Everyone must practice to become better. Anyone can manage to get to familiarize yourself more with others. To not feel that they have succeeded, can be a little painful. But try again. And pray gladly for some advice from someone you think can help you. You will get better and better if you try and practice
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